Just landed in Prescott, AZ. I’m at the university, got a password from a girl at a little anarchist place called The Catalyst. I’ve had an interesting couple of days since my last post… I’ll try to go in something resembling chronological order. I hung out with Jenny the masseuse in Clarkdale for most of Saturday. The massage was amazing. I met a guy named Nick who lived on a nearby reservation a couple minutes after I got off the computer at the deli, he told me he was going into Jerome later for a Major Lingo show, and I should give him a call. So I left my bike at Jenny’s place and rode up the mountain with Nick and his sister around 8:30. I was pretty stoned when we got there, and I decided to stay outside instead of paying the $6 cover, because the band was not as good as Nick had made them out to be. I was sitting outside on a bench and a lady of about 55 or so sat next to me. She started talking to me and looking for any excuse to touch me. I was kinda weirded out, but I figured she was harmless enough and we conversed about nothing in particular. She told me her mother had been an actress and she’d watched her murder her stepfather. Then she casted doubt on the whole thing by saying, “It’s true. Everyone knows it’s true, ask anybody!”, Or something like that. Then she told me she was a cook at a local restaurant and I should come tomorrow and she’d feed me. I said yes, having no intention of actually doing so. She left, and I wandered around. I found a jungle gym, which I used to stretch for a couple of hours. I went into the bar about 11, because it was getting cold outside. The cover was now $3, which was more acceptable. I ordered a PBR, and observed the crowd. Everyone seemed to be really into this band. My musical haughtiness precluded me from really enjoying the generic bar band, but it was cool to see so many people having a good time. Almost everyone in the place was dancing. Many of the girls had flowers in their hair, which is uncommon in the East. I thought that was great. A woman ran into me, pressing me against the bar, and ran her hands down my shirt. She said some things I can’t remember in a sexy tone of voice, and asked me what I was drinking. I told her, thinking she might buy me a beer. She was obviously drunk, and I didn’t show much interest, so she immediately attacked the next guy. About 5 minutes later, on the way back from the bathroom, I saw her getting shot down by another guy. The bar closed right after midnight. As I was outside waiting on Nick, I heard that one of the bartenders had been slapped. It turned out to be the same lady who was hitting on all the guys. Apparently she’d been cut off, and didn’t like it. She was arrested by two male cops, and she screamed and cried and made them carry her to the police car. Nick and I rode back into Clarkdale with a friend whose name I can’t remember, and they dropped me off at Jenny’s house.
I left about noon on Sunday, because she had to go to work. I tried to get in touch with Nick, he’d said we might be able to play some music, but I didn’t hear back from him until the next day. So I pedaled the 4 or 5 miles up the mountain into Jerome. That was by far the hardest segment of biking I’ve encountered so far. I think I climbed about 1500 feet. I stopped at a couple of art galleries (Jerome is well-known for their art), and at the co-op I was given free food from the previous night’s art event. I was told I had another 12 miles to the top of Mt. Mingus. Damn! I thought it was only another couple of miles, and then downhill. Oh well. I biked up to the steps by the Spirit Room (the bar we went to the previous night), and started to park my bike so I could hang out in the playground. One of the girls who was sitting on the steps yelled at me. “Hey man! I just saw you climb that hill! Do you want a beer?” Absolutely. We talked for a minute, and a guy named Colin introduced himself. He was in his 30’s, and seemed to be in pretty good shape, like he spent a lot of time outdoors. He offered me a sticker for Maynard’s new band (can’t remember, it starts with a P), and put it on my bike. Maynard had been in town a couple hours earlier, and had a documentary called Blood into Wine playing at one of the places I’d passed on the way up. I would have liked to see it, but I’d heard the area past Jerome was really beautiful and wanted to see it before the sun went down. So this guy Colin offered me a ride, saying he was heading to Prescott, and could drop me off at my destination on the way. The girl who’d given me a beer told me there was a peach tree down the street with peaches falling off that belonged to her friend and I could go get some peaches. She then offered to take me down there, and Colin agreed to stick around if we got him some peaches. She took me to her house first and we smoked some pot while I played her guitar. She told me there were all kinds of wild animals up on the mountain and I’d better take the ride, and the road had no shoulder, there was loose gravel, bikers get hit all the time, and so on… so I decided I would take a ride with this Colin fellow. Then we went to the peach tree and loaded up about 14 peaches, then headed back. Before we left, I discovered that Colin was new in these parts and nobody really knew him. Then I heard him make a bad joke about a couple having pre-marital sex (to the couple). I figured it was no big deal, and I guess it wasn’t really, but it did foreshadow some later idiosyncracies. We took the wheels off the bike and loaded up. Before we even pulled out, his headlights went out. He said it wouldn’t be a problem, we could make it before the sun went down. The views on the way up were magnificent, and I somewhat regretted not riding the bike. Another reason for my regret was the constant conversation as we were going up, so I had to divide my attention between my driver and the breathtaking landscape. It turned out that Colin had been raised Catholic, and graduated college with a political science and history degree. He proceeded to tell me something about how soldiers defend our right to vote. If you’re friends with me on facebook, you may understand how this made me feel extremely awkward. I told him I don’t care for the idea of democracy, because any government implies the use of force, which I am opposed to from an ethical standpoint. Colin also made some crude remarks about women, and later explained that he and his girlfriend had recently decided to stop having sex… for God. All cluse point to extreme sexual repression, and I hope someday he breaks out of his conditioning. After we crested the peak of the mountain, the engine cut out, and we rolled down for miles in neutral with a car behind us lighting the way. Maybe it was just the fact that I was blazed, but I was really worried that this strange dude was going to murder me or something. I later discovered that he was actually a good guy, and became aware of how much my ego is still manifesting. He called his friend, and had him come out to give us a jump. After we were stopped for a few minutes (this is before the friend arrived), a cop pulled over behind us. I’m thinking “Shit, I’m about to go to jail. I saw this guy drinking, and I don’t have an ID, and I’m in Arizona. Shit.” Colin handled the situation well, and the cop turned out to be fairly sane, and so he went on his way with no problems. I was dumbstruck. Colin said, “You’ve just gotta treat ’em like people, and don’t act like you’ve got something to hide.” Nice. A couple minutes later, his friend shows up, and explains that the alternator has gone out… he needs a new alternator. I tell Colin I’m just going to pedal it from here to Happy Oasis. He gives me directions, and he says, “I’ll write my phone number down for you, and if you’d be so kind as to do the same for me…” Creeeepy. He said he was going to call me in a couple of days and visit me at Happy Oasis. Sure, creepy guy. I headed down the road, and much to my chagrin, I passed the turn onto 89 somehow and proceeded to the next exit, Willow Creek Road. As I’m heading down the road, a truck pulls over in front of me. It’s Colin, once again. He gives me directions again from where I was now. Thanks, man, but you’re still kinda creepy. I finally get into Granite Dells and start searching for Happy Oasis. It’s not clear which one it is, and I look around at addresses in nearly pitch black for about 20 minutes before I find it. I knock on the side door, and wake up a resident named Ted who is renting a room from Happy (yes, the owner calls HERSELF Happy Oasis, so it’s a person as well as the place). I get settled in, and notice a book of poetry in the bathroom written by Happy Oasis. The poetry was… pretty unpoetic, in my opinion, but then I’m a pretty harsh judge of poetry, I can think of only a couple of poets I really enjoy… Shakespeare, Poe, Frost, Dickenson… that’s all I can think of at the moment. Anyway, I drift off to sleep in one of the bedrooms. This would be my home for the next 3 days.
I woke up the next morning around 10, and met Happy. She was tiny, but I could tell she was in great shape, and I still have no idea how old she is, but my guess is early 50’s. She offered me breakfast, and I decided on a banana smoothie, which I prepared with her Vita-Mix. Then she showed me around the property, which was gorgeous. There were granite mounds in all directions, a swimming pool, hot tub, organic garden (hey, I thought this was supposed to be a farm…?), and about 5 or 6 tenants. She gave me a list of tasks to accomplish: sweep the pool, pull all the dead leaves out of the plants around the property, clean the bird fountain, put bird feed in the feeders, take a bunch of stuff to her car to be recycled, dig a ditch for the graywater retrieval system. I couldn’t quite figure this lady out, something about her seemed a bit strange… my first clue being the fact that she calls herself Happy Oasis. I started on the pool, but after about 5 minutes the hose came detached from the pole, and the connection was nowhere to be found. I informed Happy, and we went to the basement to look for something to hold it on. No luck there, we decided that she’d just take the fork piece to the hardware store. I proceeded to take the fountain apart, because a previous WWOOFer had put bird seed in it for some reason. I got Happy to take me into the basement to locate something to clean the stem, and almost knocked myself out on the brick over the basement entrance. I cleaned everything I could, figuring I’d ask Happy to point me to a hose later so I could rinse it off, then I started on an area of what appeared to be sweetgrass, removing the dead leaves. I went inside to get some water, and Happy offered me an icepack for my bruised cranium. Happy had several employees helping to organize the Raw Spirit Festival in September, about 6 weeks from now. She asked me if I needed a nap, and I said I would like to lay down for a few minutes. I ended up laying down for more like 30 minutes, until I was awakened by a guy named Milton who asked me to help prepared a salad for lunch. I grated cabbage and carrots, and chopped celery and peppers, and mixed everything together while Milton gathered greens from the garden. The salad was delicious. After lunch, Happy asked me to prepare some raw sunflower seed hummus for the Slow Food meeting later that evening (I think I’d mentioned to her that hummus was one of my favorite foods). I won’t go into all the gory details, but I ended up making 2 kinds, an Italian version and a curry hummus. Toward the end of this culinary endeavor, Happy told me to finish up quickly so I could have Milton show me how to stain the side deck before I left. Milton had me cover all the areas around the deck with tape and paper (there’s probably a name for it, but I can’t think of it), while he painted the hall inside. I covered everything except one small area (I tend to be absent-minded at times) and waited for Milton. He pointed out my error, and as I was finishing up, Happy notified me that we had to leave soon. I came into the kitchen. Happy asked me if I wanted to go, we didn’t have to… I said yes. Happy had me cut up some carrots and celery for the hummus. I’ve never really done this before, and apparently I was doing it wrong, because Happy grabbed the celery and chopped it with lightning speed, telling me to do the same with the carrots. We headed out the door, and we were running a few minutes late. Happy said we’d be a few more minutes late, she was going to pick up some flyers from New Frontiers, the local health food chain. On the way to the meeting, Happy told me that I move slow. This made me feel pretty awkward, though perhaps I had been working somewhat slowly. I mean, I’m essentially volunteering, just being fed and having a place to sleep, but I felt I’d provided a good deal more value to her than she had to me… it’s not like I was just hanging around all day, I’d definitely gotten some stuff done. We arrived at Prescott College right on time, they were just opening up the serving table. Happy told me I’d need to enthusiastically tell people what was in the hummus. Damn, I could hardly remember, there were so many ingredients. As we were coming to the table, she made me practice. We found a spot for the hummus and vegetables, and Happy asked me to grab some spoons from the far side. I went around counterclockwise, which was the wrong way to go, as I had to maneuver around people and chairs up against the wall. I grabbed a couple of spoons and returned to find someone else handing 2 spoons to Happy. “See, you move slow.” Obviously you weren’t watching me, Happy. I felt a sense of self-pity, which I quickly shook off and started to mingle with the people at the gathering. I ended up sitting next to Happy and Molly, the organizer. A interesting-looking girl arrived and sat near me. She had 2 nose rings and a huge earring in one ear, and dreadlocks. She had just moved here last night from Boise, Idaho. After we ate for a bit, Molly declared that everyone who made something would have to talk about what they’d made. I wasn’t aware there would actually be public speaking involved, but I just rolled with it, and if Happy didn’t like it, then she was just going to have to get over it. My turn came around, and I felt like I did a pretty decent job. Later, Happy talked about her event coming up this Sunday, which is a foraging class. She talked about “the sacred salad that’s all around you” and “returning to your primordial roots”. Then a wild-looking dude named Thomas got up and talked about Karma Farm, which he started about 3 years ago. They collect food from local farms and gardens and give it away for free. I was really inspired. He talked about what motivates him, “People are starving right now!” Wow. This is the kind of thing that’s really going to create a better society. Happy had me take a picture of him for the Raw Spirit Festival… it was difficult, because he’s a little scary-looking. I got several compliments on the hummus. I talked to the girl for a while, she had been hanging out with Thomas all day. She was staying at this place called The Catalyst, and I should stop by in a couple days when I leave Happy Oasis. Happy asked me a couple of times if I was ready to go. I said yes, but I wanted to volunteer for Karma Farms on my way out. Thomas was talking to a couple of people, and Happy seemed to be engaged in a conversation as well, so I had a few moments to talk to Rae (that’s the girl with the piercings). He ended up drawing me a map outside, and I said I’d come out on Thursday to help harvest. Happy was waiting for me in the car. There had been an invite to a drum circle at 7:30, but it was now 7:45 and Happy decided it was too late. I said, “Wow, that guy Thomas was really inspirational. I’m inspired.” Happy: Long pause. “Yeah, that was inspirational, huh?” …yeah, that’s what I said. Happy informs me that she’s been really frazzled lately with her festival coming up, and nobody works as hard as she does. In fact, she has 5 employees, and she does 70% of the work. Hm. Maybe she’s just stressed out, and she’ll feel better tomorrow. We agree that I’ll teach a little yoga in the morning. We arrive at the house, and Happy points out the apartment of one of her tenants, Emily, on the way up to the door. Happy had me wash all the dishes from the day, which took about 20 minutes or so. A guy named Stefan comes in. Happy tells me she’s going to call it a night, which indicates that she wants me out of the room. I hadn’t seen my Berkey filter for a couple hours, so I go outside to hunt for it. I notice Emily’s lights are on, and I decide to introduce myself. I fell in love as soon as she opened the curtain. She was 19, and probably one of the cutest girls I’d ever seen… very even-keeled and sociable. We talked for about 20 minutes, and I played her guitar. We made plans to go hiking the next day (today). I headed back inside, still no Berkey Sport bottle. Now Milton was there. I overheard Stefan and Milton talking about the vortexes (vortices?) in Sedona. I’d heard about those on my way through Sedona, but this guy apparently knew a thing or two about them. He said the vortices were more real than “this reality”… trees tend to grow in spirals in these locations. I got his info so I could friend him on facebook. Happy lended me a book on foraging, let me take a shower, and I was off to bed.
I had set my alarm for 6, but kept hitting the snooze button and eventually just turned the alarm off. Around 7:30, Happy knocks on the glass door and asks if she can come in. This might not be totally accurate, but the gist of it was this: “Aaron, you didn’t feed the birds, you didn’t put water in the fountain. That was the first thing I asked you to do. I thought maybe it was just me, but I talked to Milton and he said every time he looked you weren’t doing anything. It took you an hour to make the hummus when it should have only taken 5 minutes. I’ve had a lot of amazing WWOOFers, I’ve never had a WWOOFer who didn’t want to do anything. I think you’re lazy and selfish, and I’d appreciate it if you would leave this morning before breakfast.” Having just woken up, I was pretty shocked, and I couldn’t think of a logical response except to nod and start gathering my stuff. I felt pretty bad about myself. What could I have done differently? I felt like I’d earned my keep, although maybe not gold star-worthy, I’d done a fair amount of work. I looked outside for my bottle, and once again Happy says, “I’d really appreciate it if you’d leave now. I don’t like having selfish people around. You made me late to the meeting last night, and then you made me late to the drum circle, so you’re hurting my social life. You haven’t done anything. That piece that goes on the pool vaccuum is expensive, and now it’s nowhere to be found. I don’t know if you threw it somewhere or what, but I’m going to have to buy another one.”
I had some Deja Vu from my childhood when my grandmother would accuse me of breaking yard equipment on purpose.
“You’re selfish. You could have offered to feed the birds or fill the fountain this morning, but you didn’t. I feel used.” I explained that I can be absent-minded at times, and it was not my intention to get something for nothing. She had asked me to do quite a few things, and I was sort of jumping around a lot, so some things didn’t get done, or were only partially done. She said she’d send me the bottle if it were found, but she wanted me out right away. As I was walking to my bike, she came up behind me and said, “Aaron, if you don’t leave now, I’m going to call the cops.” I realized I had left my clothes inside while I had gone outside to look for my bottle. “Yeah, make me wait some more”. Geez, lady, give me a break. I realized I didn’t really know where I was going. I approached her again, “Hey Happy, I’m sorry it didn’t work out,” “Yeah, I’m sure today will be better,” “I hope everything goes well for you. So I just keep south on 89, right?” “Yeah, that’s right,” “Okay, have a good day”… So ended my stay at Happy Oasis. I’m not sure what to think about this… my gut tells me that she’s just crazy. Maybe I could have done more, but I feel like I did plenty in exchange for food and lodging, I worked a good 5 hours or more. I can’t excuse her behavior on the basis of stress. Oh well, life goes on. I rode down to Prescott, and got directions to The Catalyst from a coffee shop. Turns out they don’t have any more room, or so one occupant named Aurora informed me, but another girl there told me I could use her password at Prescott College to get on the computer. Rae came in after a few minutes, and we hung out there for a while. She said she was going to the college and I could follow her. So here I am. Rae went to work with Karma Farms, but I decided to stick around and finish blogging. I spent some time sending messages on couchsurfing when I first got here, and just got a call from a guy named Shaun. I’m heading over there now. I’ll be in Prescott til Thursday evening, and then I’m off to LA to meet up with Joel, probably hitching all the way. Meanwhile, I’m going to work with Karma Farms and hit the Peavine bike trail which runs through Granite Dells, I’ll probably do that tomorrow.